Signs of a Crazy Maker

Here are common signs of a “Crazy Maker” — someone who creates emotional confusion, chaos, or instability in relationships, often without taking personal responsibility.

🔥 1. Gaslighting

They deny or distort facts to make you question your memory, perception, or sanity.
”I never said that.” / “You’re imagining things.”

😤 2. Blame Shifting

They rarely take responsibility and always make you the problem.
”You’re the one making this a big deal.”

🎭 3. Playing the Victim

They twist situations to make themselves appear hurt or oppressed — even when they’re the aggressor.
”I can’t believe you’re treating me like this after all I’ve done for you.”

🎲 4. Emotional Whiplash

They swing between kindness and cruelty, warmth and coldness, unpredictably.
You’re always guessing what version of them you’ll get.

💣 5. Creates Chaos or Drama

They thrive in crisis and often stir conflict or drama, especially when things are peaceful.
Arguments seem to erupt “out of nowhere.”

🤐 6. Invalidation of Your Feelings

They minimize or dismiss your emotions.
”You’re too sensitive.” / “You’re overreacting.”

🎯 7. Control Through Guilt or Obligation

They use guilt to manipulate.
”After all I’ve done, this is how you repay me?”

🧠 8. Double Standards

They expect grace and understanding but don’t extend the same to others.
”I was just having a bad day!” — but won’t accept that from you.

🔁 9. Circular Arguments

Discussions go nowhere — they twist words, change topics, or refuse resolution.
You leave the conversation more confused than when you started.

🪞 10. Makes You Feel Crazy or Small

You question your own reality, feel guilty all the time, or feel like you’re walking on eggshells.